sometimes it's hard for us to let it be
it's even harder for us to say good bye
but if it is simpler than going through it
there is always a reason for not having it
laying over our life because
"seorang muslim yang ditimpa penderitaan , kegundahan, kesedihan, kesakitan, gangguan, dan kerisauan, bahkan hanya terkena duri sekalipun, semuanya itu merupakan kafarah (penebus) dari dosa-dosanya"
(H,R Bukhari dan Muslim)